Coming to terms about some things

2009-07-16T15:11:00.000-07:00

So yesterday I had a really good talk with one of my best friends about self esteem and how me view ourselves and how others view us. It was really helpful for both of us it was a chance to just vent about how we feel about ourselves and say things that we only think and would never say to anyone. It is so funny that although we are both very pretty females that we both thought that the other one was prettier than the other. She felt like she was the ugly friend when we are together and envied the fact that I am not nervous to talk to guys. While I was always wanted the type of hair that she had the how she seemed to never have to be someone because they expected that of her. We talked how people view her as quite and that is is hard for her to just go out and make new friends.And we laughed at how when people first see me or don't really know me they think that I am a diva and that I am really shuck up and that is not the case at all, I am usually the one cracking joke and laughing all of the time. We realized that although both of us put on this big act for the world( me pretending that I have all the confidence in the world and that I don't care what people think & her not being able to step up and out of one of our others friends shadow) that we both feel the same way a little insecure and just trying to make it in this crazy world. At the end of our talk we both realized that we are amazing because God made us and that we are to lift each other up.

*** I am new at this blogging stuff but I want to find a phrase that I end all of my blogs with. I will have that by my next blog*****

Confessions of a so Called Diva

Coming to terms about some things